WORDS OF WISDOM.
SEX, LOVE AND VIRGINITY!!!
SEX, LOVE AND VIRGINITY!!!
A number of girls have complained that men walk away from their relationships simply because, they object and refuse sexual intimacy in courting. Many of them confess that they had to concede and loose their virginity just to keep the relationship.
Now--lets_be_very_blunt_here.....
SEX may not be the actual reason why the men go away. It is true that several men demand sex, and when they don't succeed, they walk away...
SEX may not be the actual reason why the men go away. It is true that several men demand sex, and when they don't succeed, they walk away...
The real problem may not have do with virginity or sexual responses.
Remember the story of the Ten virgins in the Bible?
Remember the story of the Ten virgins in the Bible?
We understand that both the wise and the foolish ladies were VIRGINS; but in the end five of them were allowed into meet with the bridegroom and five others were not.
I do not believe that the rejection of the five virgins had any particular reason to do with their virginity because all ten had their virginity intact. But they were called foolish because they had no EXTRA OIL to guarantee them a meeting with their Lord.
EXTRA OIL in this sense simply mean CHARACTER
Most girls do not have EXTRA OIL to sustain any relationship, while many others brag about their virginity and that is all they have to offer.
Now here is a question I want to challenge every girl to answer for herself. As a lady, aside your virginity, what else do you have to offer to a man?
* Can you support him spiritually?
* Can you support him physically?
* How about mentally?
* Can you support him physically?
* How about mentally?
If all you do is to demand money for bag👜, shoes👠👠, clothes 👗👖👙, and outing, making him spend unnecessarily, then your character suspicious.
Have you ever sat down with him to help plan things relating his future?
Does he see you as someone he can confide in?👫
How many times has he come being in a state of dilemma seeking advice from you or is it a relationship of bouncing and jumping from one club to another?
Our growing girls should note that virginity ends after the wedding day, but the EXTRA OIL will continues to keep you with God for life.
Nobody is perfect. We all have our weak and negative sides to life, BUT to become a woman that will make a man regret losing for the rest of his life you must get an EXTRA OIL.
Every girl should endeavour to build a relationship of her taste with her spouse..putting EXTRA OIL to use and stop looking for a ready made husband.
God bless you
Amen.
Amen.
